We all know that a good relationship is hard to come by, so it’s important and crucial to keep the one you have alive… If you’ve been together for some time now, and feeling that the feelings are there but daily lives have taken away your SPARK- here are 8 thing you can do to rekindle your flame:
1 – FLIRT
Flirting is the oldest trick in the book. Unlike some magazines who say that flirting with other people during the day would make you come home all sexed up- we think you should flirt with.. Your partner!
You can give each other a healthy pinch in the side while they’re passing you around the house, or stare at their body when you think they are not looking… Even wink!
2 – Do something symbolic together
Some couples take a lock and attach it to a fence and throw away the keys, others carve their names onto a tree. You can do anything you want, but it has to be together and it has to be to celebrate your love. Go to the beach or park with 2 helium balloons, write your names on them, tie them together and let them fly into the sky.
3 – Write each other stupid love notes
Sometimes a silly love note is all you need in order to light up a smile on your partner’s face. Your note doesn’t have to clever, or even say anything. It could be a quote, a short sentence, a good day greet or even just a heart. The trick is hiding your note- so your love will discover it during their day and have a pleasant surprise!
4 – Sex in the morning!!
Morning sex is indeed the best sex ever!! Forget morning gym, coffee or a shower… Sex is the best way to wake up and start your day. If you are not having morning sex on a regular basis this could break your routine and relight your fire!
If you want more convincing- read UKmedix article about morning sex… You’ll thank us later!
5 – Take romantic pictures together
Well, most couples take pictures together, but that’s not what we mean. Take real professional pictures together to celebrate your love. Make a day of it, dress your best, fix your hair and go somewhere beautiful to take amazing pictures of yourselves.
You don’t need to upload them to Facebook- instead try framing them or taking one and creating a canvas print out of it to hang in your living room or bedroom.
6 – Act like kids again
There is something about acting like kids, with no worries in your hearts, that releases endorphins and simply make you smile! Go run in the park, play on the swings, have a playstation marathon or even visit an arcade and play silly video games together.
7 – Have a compliments week
Take one week from your lives and do 2 things:
– End every conversation with stating something you like about your partner
– Don’t have sex.
We promise you that the further the week progresses your compliments would be more and more sexy and when the week is over- you won’t be able to leave your bed!
8 – Take your partner somewhere that means something to you
Last but not least we have this tip. Take your love somewhere that means something to you, that is a part of your past. Take them to see your old school, take them to a place where you were happy or hurt. It doesn’t matter what your story is- as long as it’s personal.
Couples tend to fall into this daily schedule and love routine, and they forget sometimes that intimacy is also words, stories… Sharing something visual with your partner might let them see another side of you, and simply start your love again.
So watch over your love, cherish them, and share this post with them telling them with tip you should try at home!